My friend can’t talk to girls socially, how to help him? So I have a friend who has sisters and his team is also mostly girls but he still faces issues talking to girls. I mean in a professional setting or friends or family setting there is no issues but in a dating or arranged marriage situation there are issues. He’s never really dated so no experience in that scenario. I spoke to few of the girls to understand what’s happening but got mixed answers. One girl said He’s too boring and talks very little, so then he started talking extra and trying to make the conversation more interesting but then one girl said he’s being too “trying hard to impress”, one girl said he’s too flirty, then he decided to be just be himself which i usally just a neutral guy, one girl said that’s no vibe, one said that’s no spark. He’s not a bad guy at all and as a person an amazing guy. I had one of our guy friend guide him but turns out the guy friend looks extremely handsome and used his looks to make girls fall for him(as per 3 of the girls he was dating). So then I arranged a common female friend to talk to him to figure out what’s going on. She said “nothing is wrong with him, acha hi toh hai but I get more friends vibes from him maybe because I am married.” I don’t really know what to do? How can I help him and dont say talk to more girls. He does talk to multiple girls we just don’t know what’s happening? submitted by /u/Hermitcrabguy
Originally posted by u/Hermitcrabguy on r/AskMen
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