If a person listens to your advice and does exactly,they give them selves a timeline,1 month and they find out if they really like what they are doing.how does one ,who genuinely despises people around him be social??The friends they have,mean,cringe,egotistical,good on the face but jealous when looking at the success of others, people who have goals and chasing theirs but reduce you to also partake in their journey,to work as their subordinate,even though the person thinks more critically than they do,over the top actors,who put on a act and when one stay quiet as some quite naturally are,get to making a fool out of them of being rude or not fun,how does one stay away and clear,of some other persons problems and issues that are being dumped on the individual who just wants cool friends secure of themselves,away from gossips in the friend groups and talking bad on the backs?how does one yet still have and maybe find more genuine friends ,who do not get overly attached to the individual,who have their own life and genuine self esteem and confidence and fit for that individual,also how does one"change" from one who fooled around but now finally understands their life but then would be looked up to as weirdo,poser ,or even get sidelined, which one would never want,in a gist be there ,and still absent,and everything staying just fine as before? submitted by /u/Advanced_Effort_6421
Originally posted by u/Advanced_Effort_6421 on r/AskMen
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