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(Sorry in advance for bad grammar) hi, for context I’m 19 and have never ever been in a relationship not even gave my first kiss, and i am geniunely desperate and don’t know what else to do because i’ve been told that i’m not ugly and at least a 6.5/10 face, really good outfits and put effort into my personal presentation, good personality, funny, interesting and into lots of stuff/hobbies I’m in a good uni studying pharma so at least not dumb, and all my female friends agreed on this, and when i like someone i really put effort into it, one i went to the church all night and spoke in front of looots of peapole about the bible just because a girl i liked invited me(I’m atheist), then like a year after that girl rejected me i met another girl at uni i did everything i could, i would bring her handmade breakfast bc she was always running late so usually didn’t eat in the morning, we shared lots of interests and hobbies, i would skip a party at uni just so i could talk more with her, i asked for her ig although i already had it bc i wanted to do things right, she uses to have wound at her hands so i would carry around band aids, and chocolate for her to cheer her up if she was having a bad day, i watched demon slayer in a week to invite her to go see the 2nd movie together, i arrived an hour early to go buy an umbrella bc it was raining, just so happens that one week she met a guy and after he went with her in the subway on the way to go see the movie with me my friends told me they saw them kissing, i didn’t belive that and asked her if they were more than friends, she just laughed and after i “confessed” to her at uni (told her i didn’t want to talk more to her bc she clearly wanted him more and told her that) she just told me “ok” and next week they were bf and gf, i either end up rejecting myself bc she has someone or getting rejected, what else do i even have to do, it seems impossible for me to have a gf is there something I’m missing? Everyone arround me already had at least 2 relationships longer than a year, does anybody have any advice or solution? submitted by /u/Elkono09

Originally posted by u/Elkono09 on r/AskMen