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It wasn’t until recently that I realized I’d been flirted with about every 3 years or so, and I was just too dense to realize it or engage with it. But, I am objectively not all that appealing. Not the most attractive, only recently did I get into okay shape (and even at that, it’s not great), have trouble keeping friends, have mental/physical health problems, and am generally just socially awkward. But I hear all the time that women don’t flirt with men. So, now I’m confused what that means. What kind of frequency are you all being flirted with? Is every 3 years about right? Is that low? Is that high? Am I misunderstanding what women flirting looks like? submitted by /u/anonymous_muffin_

Originally posted by u/anonymous_muffin_ on r/AskMen