So , I met a lot of men during my college years ( they were and stayed classmates to me, some became friends, nothing more) and some of them eventually caught feelings, that’s not the problem, normally I just used to say “sorry, I don’t like you like that” and moved on. The problem is the ones who persisted (like 4 of them). I very clearly stated that nothing was gonna happen but they don’t miss a chance to ask for dates from time to time. For the men I don’t care about, what happens is that I simply block them but for them it’s more complicated bc they’ve been really nice to me and extremely useful (in the way that they are great contacts to have). They’ll be 30 in a few years now (1 is already older than that) and I wish they’d give up already, it’s been years now. Is my ONLY solution cutting them off ? Isn’t there a way to make them understand? I need your perspectives on this pls submitted by /u/Spartiate8
Originally posted by u/Spartiate8 on r/AskMen