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So here’s the thing. I’m like insanely sexually frustrated over someone in close proximity to me (lowkey kinda my last hope on earth for love but EXACTLY what l’ve always yearned for fr ugh) and there’s no movement on that front and I think I’m going to perish very soon if I can’t get some kind of a release. And honestly if there’s no movement on the primary desired front, I’d like to keep a lowkey trusted FWB around. I hear horror stories of people having guys go nuts and destroy their apartments - I’ve had a lot of bad shit go down in my life, and my home is a safe space for me, so I don’t want just one night stand after one night stand on the apps. I’ve tried the apps before for serious dating & casual-but-stick-around and I just don’t have luck with it. I don’t know what about me is scaring these guys off or why I always fall into this trap. Genuinely feedback and live reactions from my sexual partners have always been like, super enthusiastic, so even on a hookup sense I just don’t get it? ALL of them just don’t stick around longer than a month or so? Fr? Why? I need help. Actually. I have a busy life and just need to find someone safe & trustworthy to plow my brains out at night 😭 I still have snap with a few guys on there that I used to talk to but the one that lives blocks from me probs thinks I was a bitch to him last we talked. Idfk. I’m scrambling for every possible solution here. submitted by /u/squirterchica777

Originally posted by u/squirterchica777 on r/AskMen