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Hello, so I have a question myself (25 female) is currently in a FWB with a (32 male) he is very experienced more than myself when it comes to sex. He is my only second sexual partner. I have an issue with making the first move. He is more dominant, and I am more submissive but he has brought it to my attention that he wants me to initiate things more and due to my past relationship i am very bad with initiating things because every time I would start things with my (ex partner), I would just get turned down and got told that he wasn’t in the mood. I really do like the guy that I am sleeping with. I really do want to make things work out with him. I am just struggling on what to do with him and how to go about it. I’m not sure why I get scared to do so and when I do so initiate, I just go straight to the point by going straight down and starting oral I’m not sure why and what else to do. ( let me know that I have tried to send him sexy risky messages that does work, but he wants more hands-on I’m guessing submitted by /u/InsuranceOdd4738

Originally posted by u/InsuranceOdd4738 on r/AskMen