Several months ago, I stumbled upon a group while playing basketball at a park. The guys told me it was a church support group and they met up every Sunday morning. They’d gather around sharing and supporting each other through their life’s experiences and play basketball right after. It left an impression on me, but not to the point where I asked to be a part of it. I do, however, think it would be good to host small events for people, because who isn’t in need of some form of support? I mean, if you think about it, it’s a great way to meet people, network, have a “night” out, and join a community. Personally, sometimes having “water cooler” talk or chatting with the neighbors seems idle? If I’m not doing something different or engaged in an activity that would benefit certain problems, am I just complaining or venting? Is that what we truly need? I’d like to think not, because therapy, communication, and having acquaintances should cure most problems, right? I think it’s a bond building experience and potentially surrounding yourself with, not just like-minded people, but people who are actively working towards change and learning what might improve their life can become the catalyst for ourselves. Maybe that’s where the disconnect stems from? So many people are trying to showcase, compete, or fake their circumstances that it creates a divide amongst us and within ourselves. What are you throughts? submitted by /u/optimaltimemism
Originally posted by u/optimaltimemism on r/AskMen