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The words were “it’s a shame we can’t f%°k one last time” and I found it out through snooping in her insta dm"'s a year after it happened. When I brought it up as needing closure that she had cut that off, she agreed to show me and saw the message - deleted it and then allowed me to see…then had a massive angry outburst about how she should never have to do that. At this point we had introduced our kids to one another, I’d just taken her to a spa that weekend and I was due to stay at hers with my kids for a sleepover. I buried it for 7 months and broke things off but now we are trying again and it’s still an open wound for me. Have any men been through this and is it very much just say something and expect it to be over or bury it if I want to be with her? Otherwise the relationship has been good since I gave her a second chance. submitted by /u/Pitiful_Pitch_5825

Originally posted by u/Pitiful_Pitch_5825 on r/AskMen