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Positive question only. Please share advice that genuinely worked in your real relationship, not generic clichés or internet theory. How do you keep the relationship emotionally alive, romantic, playful, intimate, passionate, and still evolving after years or decades together instead of slowly becoming routine or purely functional? What habits, actions, communication styles, emotional dynamics, flirtation, lifestyle choices, affection, spontaneity, or relationship mindsets genuinely helped maintain strong chemistry, attraction, closeness, romance, and desire long term? Asking as a 38M for my wife after more than a decade together. submitted by /u/DivineLove1

Originally posted by u/DivineLove1 on r/AskMen