I don’t really know how to say this without sounding weird, but I’ll just be honest. Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to become asexual. Not in a “label for identity” way necessarily, but more like I just don’t want to feel sexual attraction anymore. It’s not bringing me anything good — mostly just distraction, frustration, and sometimes even guilt or confusion. I see people talk about relationships and sex like it’s this huge, important part of life, but for me it just feels… tiring. I’d rather focus on my own growth, my work, my peace of mind. I want to get to a point where I can genuinely not care about sexual stuff at all. I don’t know if this is something you can “become” or if it’s just how you’re wired. That’s part of why I’m posting here. Has anyone else felt like this? Did it come from burnout, bad experiences, or just a shift in priorities? Is it even healthy to want this, or am I just trying to avoid something deeper? Not looking for judgment, just real perspectives. Note: Used AI to organize my thoughts. submitted by /u/Lynx4960-Yuoiy
Originally posted by u/Lynx4960-Yuoiy on r/AskMen