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Its almost been a year since the break up. She’s moved on after 7 years I thought it would have taken a little longer for her. I’m still stuck here reliving everything, the highs, the lows, the signs I saw and the ones I missed. I can still hear her voice, her laugh, the funny noises she would make to make me laugh. I miss talking to her everyday, her being the last thing I see before I fall asleep and the first thing I saw when I woke up. I want to move on, but I can’t it feels like I’m stuck. I tried to move on, I downloaded tinder, and its god awful to talk to some of these people. I don’t know what these women expect on these apps. There is no personal connection is all impersonal and robotic. How do you know if someone has chemistry over text? I have no friends who live in state, and I have only my cousin who has a family amd his own life to live. He’s been checking in on me weekly which I’m grateful for. I owe him for being there. Her friends became my friends, but after our break up they all ghosted me. That warm loving environment that I wasonce a part of is now a memory. I’ve been going to the gym everyday, I took up learing to play guitar, and started a course in cyber security for my job. All of which keep me occupied, but the lack of socializing has really taking its toll on me. I miss her, my old life, our friends who all took her side. Has anyone been in similar situations? How did you move on? submitted by /u/Sleep_parallex

Originally posted by u/Sleep_parallex on r/AskMen