Basically the title. I’ve been dating a guy for 4.5 months now and he says that while he sees potential, he wouldn’t say I’m his girlfriend yet, that he needs more time. We’ve been exclusive for a while now (since about date 5 or 6), we see each other 2-3 times a week with frequent sleepovers, he holds my hand in the street, we’ve met each others’ friends, etc… I’m feeling pretty confused. To me, we act like a couple therefore we kind of are, it’s not that deep. But he says to him it takes a lot for him to say he’s in a relationship and I don’t get the difference really. So, men, what are your takes on this? How long do you typically wait to make it “official”? submitted by /u/meetmebehindyou
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