Hello everyone! I (23M) have been having some issues for a while now and I’ve been trying not to think about it too much but you know the mind is a sticky place to be so… So couple months back I had this lady I met at a work event, we’d call her A. Me and A knew each other for a while and we were talking casually, give her a lift here and there but no flirting or anything from either of us till she started giving me the eye, the eye that screams lust then I took her out and one thing led to another we met up at another work event and tried to have sx there. She gave me BJ and we made out and I was hard all through all that but as soon as she tried to get on top of me, my dick would go soft and we did that process over like thrice before the condom ran out and we just stopped. She didn’t really say anything after that, we just left. Fast forward to like a week or two, she then invited me over to her place to finish what we started. I got to her place, we got a lil bit high and we started getting into it and the same thing happened again. I even took Vigra before just to not fuck up! Then she started saying maybe I’m not attracted to her and stuff so I just reassured her then left and we never really spoke about any of them till now! So now I met a new person, who I actually do like and want to get to know on a deep level. She’s a bit older like 4 or 5 years but she’s very beautiful and has a nice vibe. We went out like twice and the first time she came to my place, we made out and I was hard all through it but didn’t have sx because I ruined it by saying to her that I don’t have a condm in the apartment so she left and said she wasn’t expecting to even be thinking of sex as it’s too early. Then the following week I went to hers and we made out but this time it was really intense and I was really hard and wanted to fck her at the start but because of what happened before and the fact that she keeps saying she’s unsure and not certain she trusts me yet just made me not do anything and after a while I couldn’t stay hard to even initiate it again and I just left after saying goodnight to her. I’m an anxious person normally, always feeling scared of something happening whereas there’s actually nothing happening. I don’t know what’s happening to me tbh and it’s really getting to me to the point where I’m just trying to stay away from the other gender cos Id say I look good, tall and girls, ladies tend to be drawn to me as I’m a goofy and very funny person. Between those times I’ve had sx with people I’ve been with before with no issues at all multiple times. I don’t know what’s happening to me, what to do or how to process with anything sexual at the moment. I’m actually getting exhausted from it. Please any advice, help or suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you for reading to the end. I’ll be in the comments🍻 submitted by /u/CyberxSapien
Originally posted by u/CyberxSapien on r/AskMen
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