Honestly the sex was pretty boring over the years. She got mad I stopped initiating so she stopped as well. At the same time basically all physical touch stopped. As I step into the next phase of my life, how can I prevent this? Is this something I discuss in more detail with any woman I’m involved with once we get physical? And by this, I mean that I want to explore things in the bedroom like role playing, toys, mutual masturbation, etc. For reference I’m a mid-30s male that has had 3 sexual partners in my lifetime so not much experience. First was into trying new positions and borderline free use, second there was no vaginal penetration ever, but more so just grinding and oral. Current/soon to be ex is almost always missionary. God forbid I ever asked her to get on top. I also am fond of going down on women, but I never figured out how to delicately tell her that I think she was having bouts of BV. submitted by /u/Apprehensive-Wish330
Originally posted by u/Apprehensive-Wish330 on r/AskMen