So I am a 34F in a new relationship with a man. My question is about how men feel about going from a partner that is easy to get to orgasm in about every way, to a partner that struggles to orgasm at all and hardly ever does? ( I struggle with this, his former partners did not…) I know I can just talk to him, and I can. But part of me just don’t want to know his answer kind of. I am guessing it is something that was more desirable with his former partner, to get to experience that. After he fell in love and started to really love me, he has not brought up the subject or made a conversation of the issue ever again. But I still feel insecure about it, think it must be kind of a let down for him as a man, not being able to experience it with me… I am very active and interested, never say no (because I basically always in the mood for it) I genuinely enjoy my self, and often want it more than him. I am certainly not a pillow princess. But I do really wish it was easier for me to «Get there»for my own part as much as my partner… I can’t help to think it maybe feels like a downgrade that part with me… So to the men who have been in relationships with women that was easy to please VS women who was harder if impossible, did it impact your long term commitment or did it feel like a downgrade with your new partner? submitted by /u/BluebirdImmediate383
Originally posted by u/BluebirdImmediate383 on r/AskMen