I’m at a weird stage where I’m still trying to figure out what my values are and Its difficult because I haven’t really decided what criteria I’m looking for in a woman. In a way I do know what I currently want in a woman but at the same time I’m very aware that it’ll probably change over time. I’m also tired of being alone and I genuinely wanna search for a long term partner. I’ve always been against the idea of hookup culture because it doesn’t really fulfill the void I’m looking for, I feel like after having sex with a person I don’t even romantically love I’ll just be disgusted at myself. But at the same time i also know im not ready to find a serious partner only because I haven’t really figured out my values or what framework I want to live by. I also don’t want to be alone any longer so I genuinely feel really stuck. I don’t want to walk into a relationship blindly and end up hurting her overtime because of a certain moral code I later develop that doesn’t align with her lifestyle or her own values. So I feel like I must figure out myself first, and at the same time I wanna fill in that void in me. PS. I’m an 18 year old male submitted by /u/Bronxjelqer
Originally posted by u/Bronxjelqer on r/AskMen