Original Reddit post

Hey all. I’m a 22 yo college student, about to begin my senior year next semester. I’ve been noticing that access to sex and intimacy in my university life feels intertwined with having a stable relationship. Otherwise I’m getting almost nothing because dating app yield is miniscule at best. ​To give some context, I’d say I’m confident, somewhat attractive, and have my shit together physically, so the issue isn’t a lack of competence or social anxiety when I actually interact with women. The core problem seems to be how small my circle really is. My classes are departmental so people I’ve been seeing for 4 years now, and everything from my neighborhood to the campus has started to feel stale simply put. Messing around within my academic circle introduces awkwardness, and I lack the time to build an entirely new social circle from scratch. ​I cannot drop my academics or cut down on my career goals to get women or to party. Is there a way to have access to sex and intimacy when the daily environment is a ghost town…? Do I just have to gun it for my last year submitted by /u/KaneNova

Originally posted by u/KaneNova on r/AskMen