I’m trying to understand if he understood or suspected that I was interested, or if he just interpreted my behavior as friendly. The day after a group call with mutual friends (we had just recently met), I texted him just to check on him for no particular reason. He replied right away: “did you want to tell me something?” me: no I just wanted to check on you “just like that?” me: yeah just like that “🤨 are you sure?” “we talked yesterday, why are you asking how I’m doing if you don’t have anything to say, just tell me” I left him on read. About 1 hour later he texted again: “yo tell me don’t panic lol” I didn’t open it, and the next day I opened a voice chat. He came in and started talking to me in the comments even though I hadn’t opened his message. After that I eventually replied but changed the subject. I suggested a series and the conversation was actually going well. But at some point I was asking him questions without really answering his, and he quickly told me: “answer my questions when I ask them or don’t ask me anymore” A few days later I texted him again 2–3 times, and then I eventually told him: the last time I think I was a bit awkward, I thought about it and I’d like to get to know you better slowly if that’s okay. He replied: “when last time?” “yes if you want” me: lol I mean when I asked how you were for no reason him: it wasn’t awkward, I just didn’t understand at the time, it’s okay, dont worry After that I never really texted him again and left him on read because I didn’t really like his response. But after that, during group calls, he still (4times) came to talk to me privately, offered help, and sent small messages/emojis joking around. Over time we just talked normally in group chats. I feel like he might have forgotten my message or found me strange?. A few days ago in a call, I also felt like his voice sounded kind of different, more sensitive/vulnerable, but maybe I’m overthinking it but noo?? He seemed shy in 1-on-1 chats with me, but the first time we talked alone he wasn’t like that. Wtf? In group he doesn’t talk like that. He also once told me “I added you on Instagram but I think you didn’t want to accept.” I know I might have sent mixed signals. So my question is: did he at some point think I was interested in him? Or did he just see me as friendly??? submitted by /u/ilikelanguaugeandmbt
Originally posted by u/ilikelanguaugeandmbt on r/AskMen
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