Original Reddit post

Ok all I need advice. I’ve been dating a really great guy for almost 5 months. I’ve known him for years but we recently started dating. A little background I’ve been a widow for a little over a year and a half. We have a really great time together, have a ton in common and generally get a long great. We both have adult sons that live at home which is the problem. We have been intimate but it’s like when you’re a teenager and basically get it when we can. Which isn’t very often. We are generally very affection to each other although it has been a little less lately. I have tried to get him to agree to a hotel for the night which he’s not into and recently my son who was supposed to be away changed his plans. I’m super disappointed and he doesn’t seem to really care either way. Why can’t I get this guy to spend the night with me? It’s a big deal to me and yes I’ve communicated it to him. Help! submitted by /u/Significant_Ear5013

Originally posted by u/Significant_Ear5013 on r/AskMen