I have an old instagram account from my high school days and early 20s that I haven’t even really thought about for a while. I stopped posting around 2020 altogether but I still have my pictures up I grew up and went to college in Florida so were were constantly on the boat, at the pool or at the beach so half my feed is pretty much bikini pictures, even one wearing a thong bikini. A few of the pictures are definitely pretty slutty and asking for attention with comments from other men Im a mom now and wouldn’t post anything like that now. Is it weird of me to leave these pictures up? I guess im just curious how men perceive women, especially moms that have pictures up like this? Is it a bad look? submitted by /u/ThrowRA_fieldnotes
Originally posted by u/ThrowRA_fieldnotes on r/AskMen
If you’re even remotely concerned pull them down.
I was an absolute problem in my 20s I’m now in my early 40s with a school age child so the only difference to me would be that it would be relatively safe to assume you arent a prude and you might be more fun when you arent being someones mom. But thats because I’d pretty comfortably wager actual money that in any given room full of parents I’ve done the most sketchy stuff… Glass houses and all.
Some people are just desperate to judge, make assumptions or feel superior. Not just men, but women and potential employers too. The people who like you wont give a crap, the people who want an excuse to justify negative things will take away what they want to take away.