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Hey everyone I’ve been with this girl for 2 years. I’m now 20 and she’s the same age as me. It’s been extremely slow for separate reasons but we’ve kissed and done about everything except sex. The problem is I can’t stay erect during almost any of it and I can’t pin point why. We want to have sex but I’m afraid I won’t stay hard. I am nervous a bit even though she praises me and had an orgasm last time. Any advice and/or tips? I have masturbated or watch porn for over a month now, and even before that I wasn’t really addicted tbh. I’m fairly healthy but a little overweight (21-23% body fat if I had to guess), but I still have a good lbido currently and have great energy. I get good sleep, and drink a lot of water. You think it’s just nerves? Do I just wait it out and eventually I’ll be alright? submitted by /u/WestDesperate4182

Originally posted by u/WestDesperate4182 on r/AskMen