I’m not sure how long or detail there should be here so I’ll try to be detailed but concise. Preface - I never approach women in general but especially at the gym to avoid awkwardness. Probably first interaction with her was back in November/December. I asked about her tattoo because it was in a language I knew. It was a very short and brief. Looking back I was probably really awkward about it. Short interactions since then, very brief. Once we talked about it again more in depth and she told me her background and asked about mine. Another time I finally asked her name and gave her mine, she let me borrow her tripod. That was probably my best opportunity looking back now but I waited another 2 months or so to finally ask her out. Which brings us to now, I’ll play out our interaction Me: hey sorry to bother you, random question. Do you wanna go out for coffee or something sometime ? Her: yeah we can do that Me: cool can I get your phone number or instagram? Her: instagram is cool *follow her* Her: hit me up we can make a plan Me: sounds good thank you She follows back a little later. I follow up that night - hey :) when are you free for that coffee She reply’s the next day - heeey I don’t drink coffeeee but we can get do something Me a couple hours later (working) - honestly that’s good cause neither do I haha just thought it was something chill. How about some food? No reply Seen each other in the gym the past two days and just ignored each other. submitted by /u/Arynbwr29
Originally posted by u/Arynbwr29 on r/AskMen