Been seeing a girl for a month, she said she’s overwhelmed and needs a break from everything. Can’t figure out if it’s me or just her life. So we’ve been talking for about a month. Not official but the connection was genuinely strong long calls, good dates, real affection. I actually like this girl. But her communication has been inconsistent from the start. Sometimes super warm and initiating, other times goes quiet for days with dry short replies. Everytime that happened I’d bring it up because I didn’t want to just silently overthink it. We’d talk, things would get better, then same thing again. Recently I asked about going out and she said she’s overwhelmed and needs a break from everything. And I genuinely don’t get it. She’s busy with work, family, studying. I get that. But why is adding me to that picture so overwhelming? We’re not even official. We’re not fighting. I wasn’t pressuring her. I’m wondering if all the emotional conversations we had early on made things feel too heavy too fast. Like maybe she’s a more private person and I came in too honest too soon. Did I overwhelm her without realizing it? Is this just her life stress? And how do I actually give her space without feeling like I’m just waiting around? submitted by /u/jojijojitips19982007
Originally posted by u/jojijojitips19982007 on r/AskMen
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