It’s been a while for me but I (m) got into a relationship again and it’s been going great so far. My gf ticks many boxes and she is a keeper. My problem is the sex. She likes it rough and communicates it. Trouble is: I love that she likes it rough. so much so that as soon as we start going rough I finish. The other night she said it again: f’’k me hard, darling! Or another time she said: look at how my face looks when you thrust yourself into me. Both times I came immediately because this level of dirty talk is a major turn on for me. She can absolutely control sex and me by just saying stuff like that. I’m absolutely not used to such a sexual behaviour and am super turned on by it. She doesn’t get to climax though and that bugs me a lot. She strongly focusses on my pleasure and constantly encourages me to cum and to “let to”. But when I (constantly) ask how to make her happy she always avoids to answer by saying “oh I am happy” and never really directs me to what to do better. I get that I also must do my duties and just try things and see how she likes it from observation. But it’s been 5 months now and I’m not sure she ever climaxed. Please help. submitted by /u/blrfn231
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