Original Reddit post

Today I (M17) got called gay, in the sense of looking feminine, by a random guy for probably the fifth time this year. I even got called a faggot by my dad when he was drunk. Random guys also try to start fights with me, especially when they’re drunk. I live in a small town in Eastern Europe, so maybe this is less common in more civilized Western countries. I have a ton of youthful/feminine features: large eyes, a small nose, small ears, plump lips, more subcutaneous fat in my cheeks, dark blond hair, gray eyes, acne, naturally pale skin that doesn’t tan, and I only turn red in the sun. I’m basically the complete opposite of my dad. When guys first see me, they don’t respect me. Girls have told me I look like a doll, and I fucking hate it. I’ve never had a girlfriend. Every time I try to approach someone, I get told I look “very cute” and end up friendzoned. I stopped trying for now and decided to focus on myself first, then maybe try dating again later. What can I do to finally start looking like a man? submitted by /u/Sea_Regular1239

Originally posted by u/Sea_Regular1239 on r/AskMen