Tried almost every dating app at this point and honestly it gets boring after a while. Same questions, same dry conversations, texts from people you barely know and half the time I’m just overthinking that is this person even genuine? green flag or just pretending? too many endless thoughts in my head I’ve talked to a few men but somehow it always stays in the talking stage and never turns into a real connection or even an actual meet-up Being from an all-girls college, I never really had much exposure to men in real life, so now I genuinely don’t even know how people naturally meet anymore Also ngl, I became kinda feminist in a defensive way. Years of random cmt, harassment, weird behaviour from strangers made me stop trusting men easily and even start hating a lot Now I’m in my early 20s and honestly I can’t even find men I genuinely like around me like most guys in corporate feel so therki or despo that it just pushes me away more 😭 At this point I’m slowly losing interest in boys irl, becoming more dominating emotionally, and on the other side I’ve consumed so much kdrama and fictional men content that my expectations are completely delulu now 💀 fictional men and kdrama boys really ruined reality for me. Deep down I think I still want a genuine connection… I just dk where people even find that anymore without all the fake vibes, weird intentions And guys pls suggest some better approach to actually find a good genuine guy because dating apps are NOT working for me anymore 😭 submitted by /u/dusty_rose35
Originally posted by u/dusty_rose35 on r/AskMen
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