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Context: i(27 male), her (27 Female). Been 4yrs together. Last saw each other January 3rd this year and it has been a lot. Just need few tips nothing more pls. I’ve mentally and emotionally checked out tbh. Maybe just try something especially since I’d be moving back to our hometown (just finished an engineering degree) I haven’t spoken to her or reached out since last Wednesday when she verbally insulted me then double down sending a lot of dehumanizing texts, I went silent. she texted today “Good afternoon, hope you’re OK” To add more light I noticed the only reason she talks to me recently is just to complain and ask for financial assistance And recently she got into an accident which resulted in a broken leg which she’s still undergoing treatment but accident story is fishy, she gave 3/4 slight variations to the story (she went Ghost mode that weekend only to post herself on her story in the hospital). Seems she forgotten naturally i can tell when someone lies almost accurately and I always hide that talent from everyone using it to my advantage a lot What should I do?? Im going back home in few days and honestly I self aware about my behavior( I can be very petty and be the literal devil without remorse) I just to let go of a lot of resentments and handle this maturely or should I continue on my way out??? Im way more disrespectful verbally and I find it funny how for 3 years and 8 months i always keep myself in check since the day she reached out about how I hurt her verbally Pls I need some advice submitted by /u/Ancient_Platform2202

Originally posted by u/Ancient_Platform2202 on r/AskMen