Okay, we had this situation recently. And I would love some insights. For context: My(M) partner(F) was in a different country on a holiday with friends. She has an ex-colleague living there, male, who I have seen once for like 5 minutes. So I don’t really know him. She’s worked with him for one year and sees him as a nice friend who doesn’t give off weird vibes, ever. The situation: I’m home at around midnight and get a message. Which made me think she is at his house. I asked the question, she confirmed and I asked if she was alone with him, she confirmed again. He had to walk his dog and they were there for 30 mins tops. For me, having to ask her where she is, instead of communicating upfront that she’s going to a man’s house, is kind of disrespectful. Would I still feel uncomfortable if I knew upfront. Probably. She’s alone with a man I don’t know in another country. Do I think she’d cheat? No. But I don’t trust a man I don’t know. The discussion went on quite long. She’s explaining to me that the man is no danger as he’s always been nice and no threat. But to me that doesn’t matter. What I find uncomfortable, is not communicating upfront that this could be happening. Am I being overly sensitive? Should I just trust her instinct and be okay? We talked it out, but I’m stil not really over it yet. submitted by /u/GimmeSumMor3
Originally posted by u/GimmeSumMor3 on r/AskMen
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