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I have a girlfriend and I LOVE going down on her, and she always told me that she also love it more than she wants to admit. But recently I feel like there are many times where she hint of wanting me to be a little less “following command” since I always want it to be fun for both, I always listen and observe her reactions, if she seems getting overwhelmed, I stopped and checked, and she kept hinting to me wanting for me to just stop trying to observe too much and just go all out, but she never fully talk about it clearly, how do I ask her about this without making it awkward? And do you guys have any tips on how to figure out when she would want me to not stop and when where she would want me to listen? submitted by /u/Dry_View6804

Originally posted by u/Dry_View6804 on r/AskMen