Hi All, I won’t get into much details not to bother you with the story, but to explain what the question is about. How do you guys move on from something that is done, and you know that it is done, but inside of you there is this huge and unbearable amount of regret? Recently, I made someone feel hurt, it was bad, my intentions were really good, but they perceived it in a bad way, which make sense for the outside person. It has ended, communication is blocked, and there is no chance of reconciliation, at lease for the foreseeable future, or maybe never, which I understand, and realize. I know that the other person might have fully moved on from this bad experience, the damage is already done, but they have moved on from it, but here I’m, stuck in this insane feeling of regret, regret that I could have done something better, or at lease acted better, even after a month of what happened, I cannot seem to stop thinking about it, my mind keeps yelling at me “you did this, you did this, you did this” over and over again. I just want to ask you guys, how do you move on from something, with a large and insane and intense amount of regret inside your heart? I’m sorry for bothering you in this, I don’t have friends around me to ask for help, and my family are detached from me, and I’m a bit older now to ask for help from other people because I know that no one around me cares about what is inside of me, I’m able to compose myself from the outside, and act normal but this voice is following me, even in my sleep, I have never made anyone hate me, or feel hurt before, and this is the first time I actually and by accident, made someone not only hate me, but also afraid of me. So, at the end, how can you move on, while holding regret, inside of you submitted by /u/Ramy-2000-03
Originally posted by u/Ramy-2000-03 on r/AskMen