I went on a date with a girl. It was fun, we talked a lot, had some laughs, some sexual undertones. We texted for one week and were supposed to go on a next date. Aaaaand she stood me up and ghosted me. It happens so often now, that I am wondering if it really is the online dating culture or if I am the problem. From my point of view the date was really fun, we had a lot of interesting convos, laughed a lot, drank some beers. The thing I noticed is, a lot of girls nowadays look for something exciting. They have a lot to choose from using online dating apps. Ghosting has been happening a lot to me recently so I started wondering if the problem is me. Right now I am working full time and also studying full time. That does not leave a lot of room for socialising or any other activities. I want to become a more exciting person. One that has a lot of things going on in their life. I need some advices on how to grow in that direction. I am still kind of skinny so I will resume gym for sure. But I also need to build up my social life more. Maybe travelling? Honestly, any advices would be appreciated. How to become a person that is magnetising, that women won’t ghost? submitted by /u/BlackHooch
Originally posted by u/BlackHooch on r/AskMen