Hello, just curious as a woman who wants to gets back into dating…how important is sexual variety, as in seeing different partners for men? I think I’m quite open-minded, playful and have a high drive, but feel like I’m simply monogamous by nature, and prefer to build a close connection and explore with one person. Is it hard to find someone who is more sexual but also committed? Don’t know if that’s mutually exclusive or not… I would love to have a fun fwb situation, but don’t know if that by wanting exclusivity, I’m better off searching for a relationship, instead of more casual situations? If I didn’t worry about health and safety so much, I probably would be exploring kink, but then again, maybe am a bit more ‘vanilla’ still so don’t know where I find matches that are in that between area of what I’m looking for? Also, is there such thing as a casual arrangement with exclusivity, or would that automatically make it a relationship? I hope that makes sense…basically I’d like to be with a partner who has a higher drive like mine, but worry that would make them more likely to be unfaithful. submitted by /u/laurenssurprise
Originally posted by u/laurenssurprise on r/AskMen
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