Could you share some specific behaviors or traits in women that immediately deter you, even if they seem to be intended as charming or alluring to them? I’m curious to understand what aspects might create this reaction, as it seems like there could be a variety of reasons. submitted by /u/youlovettt
Originally posted by u/youlovettt on r/AskMen
I had a girl put her tongue deep in my ear during foreplay. There was nothing sexy about it at all. Also, girls who think ramming their tongue down your throat while kissing is sexy, it’s not. Finally, there is nothing sexy about having a girl ask you to choke her or hit her. I absolutely refuse to cross that line.
As far as non-sexual things, playing hard to get is an instant turn-off. I’m not going to risk, “pursuing you,” in this day and age. It’s asking to be accused of sexual harassment if you do it to the wrong woman, so hard pass. Also, girls who talk shit behind their friend’s backs. That means she is talking shit behind your back as well.
