I’m currently in a beach/nightlife place where most girls are Italian with a few Russians here and there, and I realized I’m actually not scared of rejection itself anymore. I can approach, start conversations, make eye contact, etc. My issue is more structure/calibration. At beaches and clubs, girls are usually in groups, dancing, sitting with friends, sometimes with guys around, speaking different languages, and I feel like I don’t always know how to smoothly transition from the opener into actual attraction/escalation. Sometimes I feel too “interview-ish,” other times I overthink logistics and don’t approach at all unless the setup looks perfect. For guys who are actually good in these environments: what’s your general mindset? how do you transition from opener -> vibe -> escalation naturally? how do you handle girls in groups or girls who keep eyeing you but are with another guy? and do you approach differently with Italian girls vs other tourists? NOT AFRAID OF REJECTION submitted by /u/PlanSuspicious591
Originally posted by u/PlanSuspicious591 on r/AskMen
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