I want advice from married men. I (29f) and my husband (29m) have been together 10 yrs, married for 5. We have 2 young children. Our relationship is great, he works 50 hr weeks and I am a SAHM finishing school. We do life well together, taking care of the house and kids. Having fun, etc. One thing that has been lacking for a loooong time is the physical touch between us. I am very into physical touch, not necessarily sexual but just hugging, kissing, touching multiple times throughout the day. My husband, since having kids has gone to 0 touching. When he does, it almost feels forced. Our sex life isn’t great, especially with young kids we have sex about 1-2 times per week. I’m craving his touch all day, I am a very touchy person and it builds up anger in me overtime if it’s not reciprocated or even seen. We have had talks about this in the past and he changes for maybe 2 days and is back to his old self. I know that not everyone is into physical touching & affection outside of the bedroom, so I don’t want to force him to do anything he doesn’t want to do. However, it’s making me feel so insecure that he never wants to hug me, kiss me, touch me without me asking for it. This was a part of the reason I fell for him, I felt like we both had the same love language in the way of physical touch and now that’s gone. I understand this may be a change in hormones. But how do I bring that up without being insensitive or embarrassing him. He’s an amazing man otherwise. HOW can I bring this all up without it turning into an argument? submitted by /u/Usual-Victory7703
Originally posted by u/Usual-Victory7703 on r/AskMen
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