Original Reddit post

I have a few times experienced guys having trouble staying or getting hard the first time we have sex. This doesn’t bother me - first time with someone new can be a little awkward and extra nervous. It’s fine. But what is the best way to handle it? Give “it” as little attention as possible? A lot of attention? Verbalise it and ask him? Reassure him it’s fine? Move back a step and just kiss for a bit? submitted by /u/Mundane_Concern_2620

Originally posted by u/Mundane_Concern_2620 on r/AskMen