https://imgur.com/a/Z7rf67q Backstory: This guy, 33M, and I, 32F, have been talking for about a month now. Went on a date a couple weeks ago and had a great time. He went pretty heavy with the love bombing, then planned and paid for a weekend trip for memorial weekend. We went on this trip and when he comes to pick me up he brought 2 bouquets of flowers, got a rental truck, drove 1 1/2 hours from his place to mine then another 2 1/2 hours to our destination. The first day and a half he was a gentleman and asked me to make it official on that Friday but then all of a sudden Saturday night starts acting distant. Sunday we went on a hike and while leaving he came up with a situation where none of his roommates were able to open the house for their lawn guy, so he suggests we leave a day early. I voiced I would be upset because I had to make prior arrangements for my kids to go on this trip bc he wanted to spend extra time with me. When we got back to our airbnb the distance was even worse, he didn’t talk to me and was just on his phone. I went ahead and agreed to leave early because it was incredibly awkward. When he dropped me off at my house, I communicated that I was upset and mentioned the weird behavior, he reassured me and then left home. He got sick Monday and has been sick since. Within these few days he has barely texted me, even going a full day and a half without a peep. I kind of got irritated and messaged him about the lack of response. He got defensive, I told him I needed communication but if he needed space to heal and recuperate he just had to say so. I finally asked for clarity and got this message. Is this a classic case of he got what he wanted so then changed? I don’t understand it. He also removed me from snapchat but keeps watching my stories. I finally blocked him on both snap and insta. submitted by /u/Brilliant-Ad3334
Originally posted by u/Brilliant-Ad3334 on r/AskMen