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Hey Guys, I’ve been dating this girl for a few months now and I’ve had one struggle here that I can’t get past. When I first saw her I thought this girl is the most beautiful girl I’ve ever seen. She’s literally adorable, cutest smile and face you’ve ever seen. I still think that although less butterfly-y and more practically. The struggle I’m having is her body. Shes slim and slender but she’s been on Ozempic for about a year (she started before I knew her). Feelings on Ozempic aside, she says that she doesn’t gain weight well and has a hard time losing it. I bring this up because the first time we got intimate I noticed stretch marks on her breasts, and butt, perhaps better described as sag marks(?). She’s naturally larger chested so I guess that could just be natural (gravity + time?) but I’ve been with other women and I’ve never seen this, and she doesn’t really have great shape on the backside so couple that with sag and it’s really hard for me to get turned on. Also, I don’t particularly care for very skinny women, I really do like thicker thighs and legs. Parts I am attracted to though, her belly is flat and gorgeous and “waist down” is really pretty. She’s also got long (but yes very skinny) legs. I know I sound like a kook but I’d really like to get past this. Can this reverse when the ozempic stops? How about glute workouts? The biggest annoyance is I was previously in a relationship and I could not get enough of the girls body. I was literally turned on just being next to her for years. I miss that burning and passion and desire. I miss that “umph” that can get me interested at the tip of a hat. I sleep over and often don’t have that much desire to even instigate. With my prior SO that was unthinkable. Any advice would be really appreciated! (P.s. I don’t need any judgment like “she deserves better” or “for her sake leave and she can be with someone who loves her for who she is”. You don’t know me or her and what we have gone through together so I’m asking for advice on this one area). submitted by /u/Negative-Bonus-1792

Originally posted by u/Negative-Bonus-1792 on r/AskMen