Basically what it says in the title. I’m 34 and currently single, mostly meeting people on apps. Here’s the issue: I hate being touched by people I don’t know. Doesn’t matter how hot you are or how attracted I am. The first 1 - 3 dates, I don’t want to sit next to you, I don’t want to hold hand across the table, I only tolerate hugs because I feel I have to. At the same time, I’m into kink and I’m very comfortable talking about sex. I’ve wondered if maybe it’s because I’m into kink that I feel like I need to establish some trust and rapport to feel comfortable enough to desire touch. My issue is the guys who are ok taking things slow are caught off guard by my kink interest and don’t know what to do with me, but the guys who are comfortable with kink and talking about sex are very touchy from the jump. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to approach all this in a way that’ll be best received? submitted by /u/threadofgold223
Originally posted by u/threadofgold223 on r/AskMen