So a banal situation, I am a 43F year old attractive female that goes swimming at a local indoor pool for lap swim. At the end of class, I am walking home and a man who also did lap swim from the same pool walks next to me and starts talking. We talk about the pool and how great it is etc. We discover we live on the same block. Over the next several lap swim sessions, he always made sure that he swam in my lane (it is two people per lane) and would wait for me to walk together afterwards. He is some ten years older than me and has a great job according to our conversations etc. He said he has two kids in college. To make a long story short, I can tell he likes me and has complimented me etc., and said we should go on a walk together. Today, I am sitting on my porch. And what do I see, the man from the pool walking down the block holding hands with his wife. So the dude is married and is hitting on a woman living on his block lol. I made sure he saw me and we waved to each other. What should I do or say the next time I see this dude at the pool? I really am not comfortable with his attention given what I saw and want him to basically nicely fuck off? Plus, his wife is fit and decent looking I am not sure why he needs to hit on other women. submitted by /u/Crafty_Buy_3125
Originally posted by u/Crafty_Buy_3125 on r/AskMen
