For context, we have been together for 13 years and have a beautiful daughter of 5 years old together. When I was younger i never dreamed (unlike any other girl prob 😂) of getting married. I don’t know why, maybe its the fact that the whole day is about you or so? I just never felt like: wow i want that! So When we started our relation we talked about it and my husband was more like “I want to but no per se”. So we just never got married and are totally ok with that. However, last year I got sick. I will get better luckily but its with ups and downs. But being sick did made me realise two things. 1. Life is short and can suck very much sometimes 2. I maybe do wanna get married after all. Maybe not in the traditional way, with a big wedding, but maybe smaller. Its more the idea that makes me happy after everything that happenend. There is only 1 problem haha, i don’t think he will ever propose after all these years of me telling i dont nececarily want to 😂. So I can always tell him offcourse how i feel so he can think about what he wants. Or, i could ask him, i thought. Not in a cheesy way, but maybe somewhere chill maybe even with our daughter there since she reallyyyy wants us to get Married. But is that weird? I honestly don’t know how I feel about it myself either. Last thing i want to do is make him feel uncomfortable. So let me know how you feel about it? submitted by /u/StrongProof9083
Originally posted by u/StrongProof9083 on r/AskMen
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