Original Reddit post

I have had 4 dates with a man who has a dry/ ‘Bants’ sense of humor, and is from a culture where that is prevalent. He’s British. The conversation generally is excellent, but his ‘dry’ / ‘banter’ / ‘only joking’ sense of humor is falling a bit flat with me. I intend to say something like “X, can I let you know something about me, and you can do with it as you see fit. I’ve found since my divorce that my line between what’s banter and what is … too much… is much further to the left than other people’s”. What would you understand from this and how would you respond. If it is relevant we are both in our fifties. submitted by /u/No-Mulberry1987

Originally posted by u/No-Mulberry1987 on r/AskMen