Original Reddit post

My wife(41f) and I (38m) have never had a good sex life. For the last several years its been a constant struggle to be intimate and even when we are its very boring. Im having a hard time accepting the lack of intimacy, and my wife won’t even talk about it. Im really done trying things and just want to give her an ultimatum that if it doesn’t change I’m going to separate from her. What kind of steps should I take before just leaving? submitted by /u/dailydrilling99

Originally posted by u/dailydrilling99 on r/AskMen