My ex (30F) broke up with me (29M) about a week ago after a 1-year relationship. The breakup wasn’t sudden. Looking back, I think she had been emotionally checking out for months while finishing medical school and preparing for graduation. During the breakup she said she felt I wasn’t there for her when she needed me most, and honestly I can see some truth in that. I became distant too. A few days into no contact, she texted me: “My stress about exams got the best of me. I’m really sorry. I’m sorry things turned out this way. I’m sad that you weren’t there when I needed you most, but I sincerely hope this ends up being good for you somehow.” I replied: “Thank you, I appreciate that. Don’t worry about me, I’m good. I hope you’re doing okay too.” She never responded after that. Now I’m confused. Was this just guilt and closure on her side? Was it an apology with no intention of reconciling? Or was she testing the waters and I missed something? I’ve stayed in no contact since then, but part of me still wants to reach out and part of me thinks she’s done and as mich as it hurts, I should keep moving forward. TL;DR: Ex broke up with me, apologized a few days later saying stress got the best of her and that she was sorry. I thanked her and wished her well. She never replied. Not sure if this was closure, guilt, or something more. Looking for outside perspectives. submitted by /u/DancerMan9000
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