I (35F) like to date pretty casually. Its on my dating profile with long term dating not selected as what I am looking for. I usually just will have a guy over for a first date because I’m not super interested in wasting time going out and talking (I run paid background checks on every guy before we even exchange numbers). I typically have them park in the driveway then open the garage, over the shoulder hug, followed by a kiss when I am pulling away from the hug. This is to easy the nerves on their end if there are any and to make intentions clear. The issue is in those few seconds of meeting I don’t have a great gage if they are interested. It has gone really well so far, but I have a guy coming over in a few day that only has long term dating on his profile and he specifically wrote he’s dating with intention. He asked to go out for coffee and I told him I was only looking for something casual and wanted to make sure he was open to that. He said he was open to it and its good to meet new people anyway. So we set up a date at my place. In this case, and just in gener, is it fine to always go for a kiss as a hello? It’s just a closed mouth kiss but I also don’t want to make someone uncomfortable or anything. (Also I’m clearly very autistic, please be patient 🤣). submitted by /u/S3v3n0fNine
Originally posted by u/S3v3n0fNine on r/AskMen
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