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Hey everyone, I have a question and would appreciate some honest feedback. How do you balance the financial responsibility of providing for your partner and family? I’m asking because I feel like I’m struggling to get ahead financially. My wife and I have been together for seven years, and I’m at a point where I can’t even afford things like a nice trip out of the country. Recently, she’s been expressing that she wants a man who can provide more and maintain a certain lifestyle. To be honest, our relationship hasn’t been in the best place. There’s a significant lack of communication and intimacy, and it’s been difficult for both of us. I’m working hard to build a business while also trying to be a good husband and father. My focus has always been on creating opportunities and a better future for my family, but financially I’m not where I want to be. Sometimes I look around and see what other men seem to be doing for their families, and I feel like I’m falling short. Another part of the situation that has me confused is that she wants me to continue living in the house for the sake of our daughter until things improve financially or until I eventually move on. At the same time, I feel like I’m being given mixed signals about our relationship. There are promises about working things out and being together, but the actions don’t always match the words, which leaves me unsure about where I stand. I’m trying to make the best decisions for my daughter, my future, and my own well-being, but it’s difficult when I feel pulled in different directions. I’m curious how others have handled similar situations. How do you manage the pressure of providing while navigating challenges in your relationship and family life? submitted by /u/Low-Stand-3702

Originally posted by u/Low-Stand-3702 on r/AskMen