Hey everyone, so im rather inexperienced with dating. 20s, have had a few partners. And it has always seems that women (my exes and current partner) often talk about their sex life, which of course is their sex life with their current partner. I being this up as I just recently learned my current partner is often talking about our sex life to her friends. I couldn’t imagine sharing details to my guy friends While I knew women generally will talk about their sex lives in more detail than men do, even in relationships, this one particularly hurts because of how emphasized it was to me in the beginning that sex was special and important to her, but now it almost feels that its more trivial to her. Realizing that she was talking about it casually this whole time certainly made me feel less special. On top of that, this being my longest relationship and a more innocent one at that. While I believe I do great in the bedroom and have gotten to a point where ive adapted to ensure that im doing everything she likes, as well as being rather blessed downstairs. I cant help but feel that the bedroom is no longer safe and I feel a bit violated and insecure knowing that if we were to try something new or if I started to do a bad job, she might tell her friends I do plan on talking to her about it, but just wanted to hear other men’s thoughts beforehand. I may make it a new boundary in our relationship, I may not. Im just thinking about all this tonight submitted by /u/Polarbear3838
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