Original Reddit post

Hi there! I’m 22(almost 23) and have had a crush on my coworker since FOREVER. He’s 28. He and I won’t work together anymore past Tuesday, because we work at a school and it’s summer. We’ve hung out outside of work before, and I think we might have potential. We used to text a LOT but it’s been dwindling lately. He’s mentioned seeing me outside work multiple times, so I think I’m not just making stuff up. I think he wants to also hang out. Our fields of work really connect and interact together, which has made us work together multiple times. But I need to really go on a real first date with the man to catch the vibe. The issue is that I think it’s been a while since he’s been in a relationship. And I think he might be super oblivious to my advances. Or he’s being a gentleman. If you are a man (or want to give advice from an outside perspective), I’d really appreciate it. And if you would have some advice for what to text him because I CANT HOLD MY CRUSH IN ANY LONGER I WILL COMBUST. Thank you lol submitted by /u/corduroydreamer

Originally posted by u/corduroydreamer on r/AskMen