I’m talking about few different groups of friends you have that’s around 10-15 or more people in total. How do you handle maintaining your friendship with different groups and at the same time, you ensure it won’t affect your partner being the top priority in your life? How often do you guys go out and what do you do? This has been my concern for like more than half a year already because I feel like his friends are his priority. Recently, I asked my partner if he thinks too that I’m already begging him to make me his top priority. He said yes. I don’t even know what to do anymore. When I first brought up this priority concern, I remember he said something like he’s trying his best. But up until now, I don’t think there’s any change. We are in ldr for nearly 2yrs already. I feel like I’m not his priority because has has more fun with friends than we do. This is because the maintenance he needs to do with different groups. So I feel like our relationship is getting behind. Awhile back, I suggested stuff that we could do so that spending time with each other won’t get boring. I knew we would both enjoy, but he declined. Only to hear he could do more for his friends. Do you think we should look further into the dynamics of our relationship and/or if it’s better if he should try to look how he manages his friends? Oh by the way, he’s gonna be able to read this thread. submitted by /u/glowing_brake_disc
Originally posted by u/glowing_brake_disc on r/AskMen